Many of you have asked how you can help Rob and I, and I wanted to give you some ways that you can make a difference in a soldier’s life.
Loneliness and isolation are feelings that are pervasive in the lives of deployed soldiers. Separated by thousands of miles from their loved ones for months, or even a year at a time, with no common experiences to share, can weigh heavily on their psyche. There are also thousands of men and women who have no support systems – no families to write them and send care packages.
Fortunately, there are organizations that can help with this. They connect deployed troops with people like you here at home in a pen-pal like arrangement. I’d like to encourage you to take a moment, check them out, and see if it’s something you and your family would be interested in doing.
I have 2 organizations that I’ve worked with for years that I really like: Adopt A US Soldier and Soldiers Angels. They are fully registered 501c3 non-profits, run by volunteers, and have been featured on several tv news programs. If you choose to go with another org, just be careful. Never give your money or credit card info to any organization that claims to send that money to our soldiers – no reputable charity will charge you to be a member.
A few things to keep in mind:
- You can only ship via U.S. Postal mail. The post office offers flat-rate boxes, and if you’re sending to a military base, they will discount the shipping rate.
- Packages and envelopes can take anywhere from 10 days to 3 weeks to arrive. Keep this in mind when you decide what to send (chocolate WILL melt!).
- If you are sending a care package, check with your soldier before sending homemade food to make sure they are comfortable with it. Soldiers are advised not to eat homemade food from people they don’t know for safety reasons, so make sure you don’t waste your time.
- Our troops are stationed in a number of different situations. Some have free access to internet, and will be able to communicate with you frequently. Others may never be able to write you back. Please be understanding, and know that even though they may not be able to say it, your kindness is appreciated.
- There is only as much cost associated with this as you choose. While sending care packages with food, books, magazines, etc is always appreciated, what these men and women need most is just a connection, and a reminder that they have not been forgotten. This can be done with just an email or letter once a week, or care packages at whatever size and frequency you wish.
If you decide to adopt a soldier, and have questions or need ideas on what to send, feel free to ask me.
I’ve been so fortunate to have so many people support Rob and I through the last few weeks. Thank you seems a hollow expression to show my gratitude, but it’s all I have, and I mean it from the bottom of my heart.
